2nd highlight from the post where John talks about his former member mates:
John says that he adores Cody because of him and Marc, his boyfriend, are having a very good friendship. Cody and Marc have been close mates for a few months now and that is why John also likes Cody, because he is being a mate to his lover, Marc.
Full reading: http://www.smiliesofficial.blogspot.com/2010/07/smilies-leader-talks-about-his-former.html